I Am Toxic
I am bad. I am triggered.
My skin crawls with the need to carve into it, to cut. I have such a need, an urge to take away the bad parts and throw them away. I need to cut and hurt. I need to make it all better, to fix it.
I stare in the mirror and all I see is blame, failure, a monster.
I cut the thing in the mirror until the tears flow and he’s gasping for breath, but it is not enough. He deserves to cry, to suffer, to feel the pain.
I’m triggered.
I’m fighting my mind with my mind and losing the battle. I don’t know how to cope. I want to leave … I want to leave so badly that it scares me.
I press into the cuts already marring my skin, and it’s never enough. The pain is never enough.
I see why my mother hated me. I understand it now.
My mother used to make some ‘medicine’ when I was a child. She’d force it down my throat. I don’t know what it was. A concoction of things that always made me sick.
There was is evil in me. She needed to get it out, to rid my body of the badness inside. That’s why they did what they did. That’s why my father took my innocence, because there was never an innocence to take.
I was bad.
I AM bad.
Her medicine used to make me sick. So sick that some days I could hardly move. I can still feel the tightness in my chest, the heaving when it all tried to come out. I can feel the sting of her hand on my face when I made a mess. When vomit splashed. I can feel the helplessness, the loneliness. The looking for a mother I didn’t’ have to try to make me feel better.
I told my therapist these things and she almost …. Almost convinced me that I wasn’t bad. That it wasn’t there. But I can feel it again. It’s under my skin, and I can’t reach it.
My mother used to refuse to feed me. She said I didn’t deserve it. You don’t get to eat when you’re bad.
Someone told me I was toxic for their well-being. It undid me. It loosened the lies my therapist tried to convince me of. She tells me I am good, that I’ve a loving person, that I care …
She doesn’t know me. Not inside. She doesn’t see what others see.
My mother always said I was evil. She said that one day I’d find her dead and it’d be my fault.
It is my fault.
I made her unhappy. I make everyone unhappy in the end.
Toxic.
I’ve written it in my skin a dozen times now and it burns, yet I can’t get it out. I can’t get rid of the piece of me that is wrong. I try like my mother did. Not the medicine, but I starve it. Maybe I can rid it that way. Two days and I have cut and I have starved and it isn’t working, and I feel lost. I don’t know how to make it stop, to make me stop.
There is a battle in my head, and I don’t know how to fight it. I’ve tried so hard to be good, to not hurt people, to not cause them any pain, but I fail.
The person is right.
I’m toxic like they said. Bad like my mother said. Worthless like my father said.
My body will starve and bleed and cry until every last drop of it is gone.