Maybe now it is time for the end.
Maybe now I have to say, it’s done.
Too many times I have tried. I have waited but it’s always the same. I get crushed.
I realise I am waiting for something that won’t come. It would be far easier to touch the stars than it would to reach out to you and for you to understand what it is you have done.
I have never harmed you; I have never hit you or beat you. I have done everything you ever wanted me to do and always you deny me the one thing I wanted. A family and a father that would love and not hate me.
But you don’t. You beat me down every chance you get. You call me names and let me know my place in your family.
I ask you why? Why am I still here? Why did you keep me? What was the point? You deny it and tell me I’m imagining things; that if you didn’t want me, I would have been put up for adoption. I wonder what it is that you thought you gave me in life.
I’m done now. It’s over. I hurt too bad. It breaks my heart to walk away, but what else can I do? There isn’t anything like I hoped. You are cold and there is nothing. I will always be an enemy in your eyes. I realise this.
I could call you names and give you my anger, but what would be the point? You wouldn’t listen. You would turn it back on me and tell me how it was my fault.
I feel sorry for you. Your life is sad and you miss out on so much because of your hatred. Your grandchildren, your family, and children that would love you and be there when you needed. But that isn’t enough for you. I’m sorry your life is so poor that you have to bring me down.
You may look at me walking away as nothing. You may call me names, swear at me, even try and hit me for it. I have no doubt all you will feel is anger. But I can’t stay. Not with you. I can’t be here.
I feel so bad to walk away. It hurts so much. But it hurts more to stay with hope, and listen to you. I can’t do it any more, I’m sorry.
I feel guilty to leave you alone when you don’t have anyone. I wish you could see why it is that you are alone, but you are too blind to notice that you got rid of everyone.
Maybe I’ll be back, I don’t know.
Maybe I’ll pick up the phone the next time you call. Maybe you won’t even care that I’m not here any more.
But, I have to do this for me. I hope I have the strength. I hope I can stand alone and do what is right for me. I hope I will be better than you. I hope one day you’ll be able to live your life without all this hatred.
I am your flesh and blood. Your son. You tore me apart once more. I am broken.
I’m sorry you’re my father.
Do you feel better? whether he reads this or not you took the first step, maybe next time he will read it. Good luck.
I felt relief, he tore me apart yesterday, I cant keep doing it.
Wraps my arms around you ~
No , you can not go on this way. I had to end my relationship with an abuser that was very hard for me. I never knew my father, so this man was like a father figure. But you can only handle so much. I went my separate way and all I felt was relief and pity when he died alone. It was not my fault, I was the victim not him. Do what you think is best. I can listen to any venting cursing does not bother me. The prick does not deserve your sweet face.
a very deep and emotonal write, 😦 ❤ ❤ xxx
Being a parent of grown children, this just breaks my heart. I can’t imagine turning away from someone that I created and brought into this world. I know this must be the most painful subject for you to write about and at the same time, I know that it must help you in some way. Please know that there are people out there that truly know how to love, know the meaning of that love, and will freely give it to you.
~ Someday. ~ Hug ~
A kiss can help make this all better.
you are better than him,so now you have walked away,stay away,he is only bringing you down,your own family deserve you, He dosn’t. (((((((HUGS))))))
You truly are an incredibly strong man. I know it took the strength of Sampson to do this. You are wonderful, believe this!
Its not easy, but I’m trying 🙂